Talking is an art. The words were the same as pouring water bowl to go, it's hard currency. Before saying a Word, smart people, understand what was always very careful.
In
the real life communication, actually have the words you should not speak out.
Not saying to keep pleasing each other, to avoid causing injury, to give others
a way back.
1. Don't say boredom, make some friggin' slack morale
Many
people say the words or very depressed, make some friggin' slack will. In fact
life need the words cheer, encourage, motivate others and comforting himself.
If even with yourself that also can not say encouraging, often melancholy,
depressed European then nothing buy the strapping themselves, incredibly
desperate.
When
looking at the life there is only dark colors, is death, it is also very easy
to fall, his doomed character in the Vice, damaged, through which that ruined
his own life away. This really is dangerous.
2. Not to say angry words
When
angry, people often lack thinking, easy to say things to hurt other people.
When you suffer the scornful words, insults from others, first should be awake,
hold the center of the computer, not arbitrarily, trying patiently, waiting for
the conflict to go through and explain everything in good faith.
Naturally, do it really
hard. But anyone can do it, then who can succeed, built a career in life. South
Korea Credit when ancient strength save guys pissed, getting scratched the
groin. He has to behave? He decided to follow his words, suffered the
humiliation of going to the groin. Later, when it became a General in the army,
most of the United Kingdom, he hands in to the old pervert. Must be how big the
ring jewelry new utopian things he do here?
When angry,
people often lack thinking, easy to say things to hurt other people.
3. Do not say complaining, resentment towards
accountability
When
not satisfied, so you will probably speak out enough resentment, complaints,
resentment. Then, you see everybody's worth in the eyes of hate, from
colleagues, friends to the big boss, even relatives.
Complaining
really don't benefit chi. It only shows that you are powerless, as people have
no stance, easy to difficult tremble. Say resentment can also make you
responsible for the head of the consequences by "tai circuit wall of the
forest". Are you sure the lyrics themselves say no to others?
4. Don't say potentially harm others
Words,
when needed is also an extremely dangerous weapon, even won both the network
people. Be careful with his words, by your words probably will hurt someone,
whether accidentally or deliberately.
Has
the phrase "evil Words chill the net six months". The words hurt
really haunted him for so long, as the scars, the dằm still plunged into their
hearts. Hurting people, you also have to face the prospect of being hurt again,
my life is going to have to pay.
5. Do not say brag
Many
people like to brag, complacent about yourself, going around advertising
themselves on their talent. Others listen to feel uncomfortable. Swanky self
must not the man's personality. Only minor petty human guys, your a weak power
"empty barrel sonorous", going around and flashed strongly only.
Instead
of talking more, you show all in action. Only good new action you are others
appreciate and exceptionai only.
Only good new
action you are others appreciate and exceptionai only.
6. Do not tell lies
In
"5 World Buddhist" then "lie" was said to be very serious. Lying
can cause the glass to scatter, carrying the painting instead, just to hurt
another person, again giving his procession. People are disrespecting the guys
cheating. Lying is also the first step leads people to the bigger crimes.
Originally the lie, then there will be evil action.
Taoist
teaching about the word "feet", i.e. are sincere, honest, straight
life. Buddha also preach about the truth, keep the mind, not cheating. So,
although the little lie, as there is no harm, you should also be careful.
7. Don't tell secrets revealed
Were
is the secret cannot arbitrarily say, also could not disclose for many people
know. Who share their secrets for you is already trust you 100%. If you missed
out, the secret speech is already betray them. Prestige no longer. No credit
meaning then go all over the world you can not set, construction industry.
Prestige
was incredibly seriously antediluvian. Guan Yu is a courageous military General
of Liu Bei, as loath to surrender that Cao Cao. Cao Cao treated him very late,
three-day opening a small party, five days to open a grand banquet, again level
Indian Hare, donated most of the World but still a Dance ... wholeheartedly
toward Liu Bei, hold true, not forgetting the old master Tin.
To
know Is are in place of Yuan Shao, Guan Yu not distant concern management of
thousands of miles, from Cao Cao, give away, through 5 pass 6-general strike.
The life after the Interest that the Universe is "at the Center, Cao Cao
at Liu" (heart in mind that Cao Cao still put where Liu Bei). Cao Cao's
main front export must also credit the sense of the universe, the more
sincerely, called him mean.
Don't
tell secrets revealed
Mouth
say grim is being reduced welfare by themselves. Why is that? The Buddhist
teaching that family welfare report is from the mind of the people that were
born. Such care direction, Buddha glasses then welfare will come. That speech
is a form of expression of the mind. The word evil comes out then affirmed in
the mind could not. The mind is not friendly, expect welfare anymore?
Many wriggler: "Computer password I beams
Buddhist, angry that say so, rather than anything malicious!".
Absolutely not, can not have something called "Buddhist SOAP". When
said evil words, resentment, the heart, the soul also was filled with evil
mantras. The ancients lecture "General in the mind", every action
performed externally are all from inside that play out.
On
the contrary, always keep in mind the compassionate, speak out the words or, the
charity is the make up a ' Republic of Ireland ' energy field, pure charity.
The energy he can bring to other people and inspired Gospel parts for yourself.
The ancients said: "good faith a warm three winter" as the reason.