Please be careful with his words to the speech does not
become the sharp knife, hurt, threaten, belittle or piss on other people. By
that is you're Jason when by myself without or.
There
is a very special thing, whatever the language of race, the words described
negative emotions also always more than kind from the positive emotions.
Formerly
a magazine conducted research and found that, out of 7 from just basic emotions
of humans to 6 from negative is: fun, fear, anger, sadness, aversion, shame and
guilt.
Today,
the tendency to use negative words have more parts. In everyday life, you are
also a common way to use them without knowing self.
1. "irresponsible"
Anyone
who has ever been a parent yelled at is "Map irresponsibility" can
feel the deep damage from this. The reality, in life, you should not
arbitrarily use the word to avoid undesirable harm, unless you have clear
evidence, argument. If just want to use it to frighten the enemy, venting rage
then you make should think again.
If you've ever
been yelled at is "irresponsible," you can feel the deep damage from
this. Photo illustrated instructions.
2. "Wicked"
"Wicked"
is a very heavy and evaluation have prejudices. People always have both good
and bad parts Interlocked. The only bad point of view of others is also a type
of House has a purpose. It is said: "the Human genus, computer a
friendly" (people born in capital computer friendly). Reviews of a child
is "Wicked" may cause our psychological hurt severely.
3. "feel ashamed"
"I
feel shame for you". Anyone who gets the other person says those words,
will indeed feel very embarrassed. Can that person make a mistake, doing the
wrong thing, but somehow you make selfless, tolerance. Think again, could use
more words, enough so that they realize the mistake that doesn't hurt them or
not.
4. "interfere"
"You interfere with my work.". Saying this is also great to hurt other
people's self-esteem, will make the enemy feel yourself become useless. If you
don't mean it, change the way.
"Obstruction"
saying this also cause damage to other people's self-esteem.
5. Useless
The
vast majority of employees hear from are all feeling very scared but this is
from the boss usually likes to use most. Although it is possible their mind is
like to employee efforts to reach expectations. But in fact, these words are
rarely brought to positive effect.
If
your idea is the work of someone not trying, let's just say they didn't try. If
your Italian is someone working productivity, then says that they work is not
productive. If say someone is useless, you're decry someone and pushy.
6. Frustrated "
"I'm totally disappointed in you!" sounds very unpleasant, right? You should
say like this probably would be better: "I feel frustrated about this
action."
What this means is that you're expressing an attitude not
happy about an incident or a particular behaviours, but still have the respect
for the listener. Or can use flexible softer way of saying: "Okay, next time please use another try".
7. Don't need
Sometimes
words have very useful effects, but frequent use will make people feel
uncomfortable. Let's focus on encouraging the enemy to work where you want them
to do, the effect often looks better.
"Not
needed" is sometimes useful but used most from this will make people
uncomfortable.
8. Wrong.
There
are times, a job is obviously wrong, but often say others wrong or said the
wrong people in a deliberate way, there would be regulatory conflicts. By
saying it reminded others of feeling only you who knows, and they don't know
what is.
9. Absolutely not
Use
the words absolute as "permanent", "absolutely not," is the
way to express your strong feelings about a certain event. But everything in
this life is often confused with black and white, you can hardly differentiate
now. So you should not use these words except like to "threaten" or
doing "hurt" anyone.
10. Laughable
If that idea or opinion of someone very laughable, is you
are saying: "your idea is really too ignorant, nor even to consider
anymore". So you will make the enemy feel shy, don't know the
next step will have to behave.
"Laughable"
says this sentence would make him shy.
11. I hate
From
this work are very intense. In fact the vast majority of people don't really
like to convey the intention of "hatred" to the enemy. But to
demonstrate finality attitude, strong, to induce the enemy to day end, they still
often comes out of that.
In
the US there is a very famous film named "delete hatred". The film is
a story about a former skinhead group members for not being socially accepted
(due to racist incidents) should have lower resolution will delete all the tattoos
on his face in any way.
***
According
to the conception of the Buddha, "password" is the vocal, on the
other, malicious harm to Gospel, blessings, the fate of the speaker. It is also
one of the most common mistakes that people are often made by a lot of people
say is not careful.
So,
to avoid tripping "password", you should cultivate its good mood. And
remember:
Do
not evaluate someone is good or bad, by every person who has a life, a
different way of life.
Should
not hurt other people, by will have you at the main subject to injury. Keep all
tolerance.
The ancients said: "the mouth can say nice words
such as roses, the mouth can also say as toxic spikes ma United Kingdom.
Cultivate and export Germany should cultivate is nice energetic field for
themselves, i.e. the balm also blesses the gas itself. Be like that is not
afraid of anything no happiness and good luck!
